You are mature

We often face very strange and discouraging situations in our lives. Sometimes we even can’t find solutions for these situations. We want others to help us. But when the problems are ours then why should other try to solve these problems. Therefore we can say that we should be self sufficient in solving our problems and overcoming all the worse happenings. Most of our difficulties and problems are based on our immature thinking and actions. So we should learn how to make ourselves mature.

There are some simple rules to follow and get maturity.

   I.        Focus to change yourself instead of trying to change others.

 II.        Accept others for who and what they are.

III.        Understand that everyone is right in his own perspective.

IV.        When somebody hurts you, try to understand his/her situation instead of trying to hurt him or her back.

 V.        Stop proving to the world that how intelligent are you.

VI.        Do not seek approval from others.

VII.        Focus on positives in people.

VIII.        Understand that whatever you do, you do for your own peace.

IX.        Realize that nothing is more important than you and your family.

 X.        Stop comparing yourself to others.

XI.         Make sure that you are at peace with yourself.

XII.        Differentiate between need and want, and let go of your wants.

XIII.        Stop attaching your Happiness to material things.

XIV.        Learn to let go, accept the situation and move on.

XV.        Don’t react to the behavior of insane people.

XVI.        Be able to drop expectations from a relationship and give for the sake of giving.

XVII.        Learn to walk away from people and situation that threaten your peace of mind, self respect, values, morals or self-worth.

XVIII.        Choose to remain silent in front of fools, having a lot to say.

(Written by: Abdullah Seemab)